Same sex unions, marriage and definitions

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There are various definitions of civil unions.

The nature of the civil union and the parties upon whom it may be conferred, depend on the specific legislation of the countries or cities/ states of certain countries that have enacted such legislation.

Primarily a civil union is defined as a relationship, that has been recognised by law as giving the parties of the relationship, certain benefits, protections and responsibilities, usually similar or the same as those conferred on people who marry.

In some countries, civil unions are only open to same-sex couples, in others to both opposite-sex and same-sex couples. Definitions of 'civil union' on the web:

Reference: Government Dept. Quebec Canada   
  • Commitment made by two persons who consent to live together. The civil union is contracted openly before a competent celebrant and is witnessed through a civil union act.
Reference: Princeton University USA
  • (n) civil union (a voluntary union for life (or until divorce) of adult parties of the same sex) "parties to a civil union have all the same benefits, protections, and responsibilities under Vermont law as spouses in a marriage"
  • A civil union is a legally recognized union similar to marriage. Beginning with Denmark in 1989, civil unions under one name or another have been established by law in many developed countries in order to provide same-sex couples with rights, benefits, and responsibilities similar (in some countries, identical) to opposite-sex civil marriage.
In some jurisdictions, such as Quebec, New Zealand, and Uruguay, civil unions are also open to opposite-sex couples.

Most civil-union countries recognize foreign civil unions if those are essentially equivalent to their own.
  • animal 200823 300Many people are critical of civil unions because they say they are terms that have separate status unequal to marriage ("marriage apartheid").

    i.e. "If it looks like a duck, swims like a duck, and quacks like a duck, then it probably is a duck ... a humorous term for a form of abductive reasoning". Reference: Wikipedia

    Of course, biological entity such as a duck has  hundreds or perhaps thousands of characteristics which need to be considered to scientifically classify an entity as a duck.

    A non-physical human constructed relationship term, such as "marriage", has far fewer defining characteristics. And with increased scientific knowledge and social changes marriage has even fewer defining ones.

    So in the case of marriage if a same sex couple can meet all the same criteria as a heterosexual couple, the term "marriage" must logically apply to both.

    To discriminate between these by using different terms IS discrimination, and what many countries in the world have decided to change so same-sex attracted individuals (LGBTIQ) are not discriminated against.

  • fuss about same sex marriage 300Others are critical because they say civil unions allow same-sex marriage by using a different name.

    The rationale behind this is an acceptance that legally granting same-sex couples the same rights as a heterosexual couples IS in fact accepting a "marriage" relationship between them. i.e. this acceptance actually supports the need for a YES to marriage equality.

    However, the underlying criticism behind this is a non-acceptance of same-sex couple's sexual behaviour - two same-sex individuals, not being sexual, are called "friends" and this is acceptable.

    So really this argument is about other issues, such as moral judgments about other people's sexual behaviour or parenting rights, not about the rights of all couples to enter into a legal civil contract called "Marriage".  Read more.

There are various definitions of marriage.

Like civil unions, the nature of the "marriage" and the parties upon whom it may be conferred, depend on the specific legislation of the countries or cities/ states of certain countries that have enacted such legislation.

In some countries, marriage is open to both same-sex attracted people and opposite-sex attracted people, some to only opposite-sex attracted, and some countries  with more that two people in the relationship.

From Google: The legally or formally recognized union of two people as partners in a personal relationship (historically and in some jurisdictions specifically a union between a man and a woman).

From Dictionary.comMarriage as the union of one man and one woman is the most common definition of the term in the Western world today—this in spite of the prevalence on the one hand of divorce (enabling people to marry several different partners in sequence), and on the other, of an increasing acceptance of same-sex marriage.

From Oxford Dictionaries: The legally or formally recognized union of two people as partners in a personal relationship (historically and in some jurisdictions specifically a union between a man and a woman) ‘a happymarriage’. ... Middle English: from Old French mariage, from marier ‘marry’.

From Collins Dictionary: A marriage is the relationship between two people who are married 

Extract From Wikipedia at 17.9.17: 


"Marriage, also called matrimony or wedlock, is a socially or ritually recognised union between spouses that establishes rights and obligations between those spouses, as well as between them and any resulting biological or adopted children and affinity (in-laws and other family through marriage).[1]The definition of marriage varies not only between cultures or religions, but also within them throughout their histories, evolving to both expand or contract in what is encompassed, but typically it is principally an institution in which interpersonal relationships, usually sexual, are acknowledged or sanctioned. In some cultures, marriage is recommended or considered to be compulsory before pursuing any sexual activity. When defined broadly, marriage is considered a cultural universal.

Individuals may marry for several reasons, including legal, social, libidinal, emotional, financial, spiritual, and religious purposes. Whom they marry may be influenced by socially determined rules of incestprescriptive marriage rules, parental choice and individual desire. In some areas of the world, arranged marriagechild marriagepolygamy, and sometimes forced marriage, may be practiced as a cultural tradition. Conversely, such practices may be outlawed and penalized in parts of the world out of concerns of the infringement of women's rights, or the infringement of children's rights (both female and male children), and because of international law.[2] In developed parts of the world, there has been a general trend towards ensuring equal rights within marriage for women and legally recognizing the marriages of interfaithinterracial, and same-sex couples. These trends coincide with the broader human rights movement.

Marriage can be recognized by a state, an organization, a religious authority, a tribal group, a local community, or peers. It is often viewed as a contractCivil marriage, which does not exist in some countries, is marriage without religious content carried out by a government institution in accordance with the marriage laws of the jurisdiction, and recognised as creating the rights and obligations intrinsic to matrimony. Marriages can be performed in a secular civil ceremony or in a religious setting via a weddingceremony. The act of marriage usually creates normative or legal obligations between the individuals involved, and any offspring they may produce or adopt. In terms of legal recognition, most sovereign states and other jurisdictions limit marriage to opposite-sex couples and a diminishing number of these permit polygynychild marriages, and forced marriages. Over the twentieth century, a growing number of countries and other jurisdictions have lifted bans on and have established legal recognition for interracial marriageinterfaith marriage, and most recently, gender-neutral marriage.[3] Some cultures allow the dissolution of marriage through divorce or annulment. In some areas, child marriages and polygamy may occur in spite of national laws against the practice."

Most countries with marriage open to same-sex couples recognize foreign marriage of same-sex couples, if those are essentially equivalent to their own.

Last modified on Sunday, 17 September 2017 17:07