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Asking the right questions

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Usually when a celebrant is engaged by a family or a couple it will be first time that they've met and therefore will need to get to know each other.  They do this by asking each other questions..... but are we asking the right questions?

As celebrants we will have had some experience in how a ceremony runs, however we must remember that not every ceremony is the same and therefore, to differentiate we need to find out the individual needs of each couple and family.  How do we do that?  By asking questions.

For Celebrants:

There is a range of questions that we will need to ask in order to find out how best to offer our services.  There are three main types of questions that we can use to gather the information we need.

  • Yes/No questions:  These would refer to things like date, time & venue etc... where there is only one short answer.

  • WH Questions: This type of question is usded to find out more.  They usually start with who, what, where, when, why, how or  tell me about.....  This enables people to elaborate and give information freely in their own words.
  • Multiple choice questions: ie: Would you choose to be known as Groom, Bride or Partner? or which song do you prefer? Left or right side?

Information that we're going to need to find out:

1. What are the couple's details including whether they have been married before?

2. What type of ceremony they need? (marriage, funeral, memorial, naming, committment, etc...)

3. What is the Date / time / location of the ceremony?

4. What is the location of their Plan B just in case of bad weather or other disaster?

5. How many guests will be attending? (will you need to use a PA?)

6. Would they like to include rituals, readings, poetry, music in their ceremony?

7. How they'd like to enter the ceremony?

8. How they'd like to exit the ceremony?

9. Will they be having a professional photographer and if so, would they like their ceremony to be 'unplugged'?

10. Have they chosen witnesses?

11. Do they need an interpreter?

12. Would they like to include special wording or make special mention of a loved one?

13. Will they be having a wedding party (groomsmen, bridesmaids, flowergirls, pageboys, etc...)

14. Do they have any specific requests, wants or needs duing the ceremony?

15. Do they have guests who have specfic needs during the ceremony?

16. Do they have a vision for their ceremony?



Then to get to know the couple or family more personally, you might need to ask questions such as:


1. Tell me the story of how you first met?

2. How long have you been together?

3. What is it that you love about each other?

4. What does marriage mean to you both?

5. How do you feel that you have changed or added to your partner's life?

6. Why can't you live without your partner?

If you are a member of TCN, you have access to a special Resources Page full of printable PDFs to take with you to client meetings.


For Couples/Families

There are thousands of celebrants in Australia, so how are you going to find the right celebrant for you?  You ask Questions.

1. Are you available on our date?

2. Are you willing to travel to our location? Do you charge travel fees?

3. Do you charge travel fees?

4. How much experience have you had with our type of ceremony?

5. Do you provide a PA system?  Is it portable?

6. What else is included in your service?

7. What are your fees?

8. What is your cancellation policy?

9. Tell us about why you became a celebrant

10. Would you like to be part of our special day?

11. When can we meet you for a coffee?

To find a celebrant in your area or the location of where you ceremony will be held - you can search here in TCN's Celebrant Directory

 

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